so, i just want to stop to tell something here: if an older man likes you, and tell you that you’re mature for your age, you have a body of a grown up women, it means he just want to eat you. yeah, ok, maybe he keeps you and takes care of you well, but it doesn’t change anything, he is still a pedophile. and, girls, please, don’t fall for this, don’t say “oh, but i’m 17 now, it’s not pedophilia, i know what i’m doing, i’m a grown up woman, he’s cool, he loves me and it’s not abusive”.
stop right there.
just because, according to law, it’s not pedophilia, doesn’t mean that it’s not an abusive relationship!! please, keep it in mind. try to remember when you were younger, you used to think that you knew everything and everything you did was right, didn’t you? yeah, that’s the same thing, keep distance of this man and later you’ll see it’s was true. he knows you’re imature, he knows you’re a child, he knows you have a diferent mind, thoughts and wishes. he knows it’s abusive, he just don’t care because he wants to be in control. he wants a child who does everything he says.
and, yeah, maybe he is really cool, but there is a lot of young boys and young girls with your age who are awsome, have the same thoughts and life experience of you.
keep it in mind.
and if you’re reading it and knows somebody who is passing for this situation, you can call me, my english is kinda bad, but i can understand you, and i’ll do my best to help you