okay new plan, when I die, I want all of you to come to my funeral wearing exact replicas of all of TSwifty’s outfits from this summer
In loving memory of Sarah Sukark, best friend of Oscar-award winning actor Channing Tatum and wife of golf instructor and former pop icon Niall Horan.
Memorial service to be held on Saturday at 1pm, strict May-July 2014 Taylor Swift dress code enforced.
(Source: ishimarukiyotaka, via cimet)
Anonymous said: im starting to understand how much ive grown up with the idea that violence towards women is normal in sex. my first encounters with sex when i was a teenager normalized it so much and just effed up my sexuality so hard and its so gross im so disgusted with myself and sex in general at this point. :/
That was one of the most startling and difficult parts of become a radical feminist and developing a critical analysis of sex and porn culture for me too. Picking apart all those toxic ideas and attitudes, identifying the harmful things I had internalized, making myself stop indulging in the things that hurt me. Please don’t be disgusted with yourself — this is something that was done to you, not something you took on willingly. And there is no shame in becoming less interested in sex because of these things, it’s something I’ve also seen in my own life.
Anonymous said: Being a radfem honestly makes me feel so out of place everywhere on tumblr I feel uncomfortable or unsafe. Can you recommend some good radfem blogs please!!
My blogroll is linked on my sidebar!
Anonymous said: Can men be feminists? the patriarchy effect them as well.
A visual representation of how men are harmed by patriarchal culture:
Anonymous said: wait you're 28?????
Yes?? Is that surprising??
Anonymous said: being white and having dreads is better than saying "ew dreads r ugly"
Uh, no? It’s entirely possible not to be a racist piece of shit without also appropriating things that don’t belong to us.
Debra Harrell, mom who let her 9-year-old play in the park alone, has been fired from her job at McDonald’s.
This country is sick. Criminalizing WoC no matter what they do.
is there a go fund me for her?
yes, there is a youcaring site for her here
Anonymous said: Have you ever questioned your sexuality? If not, how did you know that you are 100% heterosexual and not brainwashed by a heterosexist society to think so? This is a legitimate question. I'm not trying to be a smart ass or anything. I'm just shy and curious. I've been questioning my sexuality for years, and I'd like to hear stories from people of various sexual orientations, because I'd think it would be helpful in my situation.
I’ve definitely thought critically about my sexuality both when I was a teenager and, in a completely different way, since I’ve become a radical feminist. I guess I know because my attraction to men has always stood up to interrogation, and in 28 years I’ve never found myself looking at/thinking about women the same way I look at and think about men. That said, I can’t say with absolute certainty that this isn’t due to heteronormativity and compulsory heterosexuality — I’ve never existed in a society without those forces.
Anonymous said: omg you like arctic monkeys right??? what do you like so much about alex?
I think he’s a brilliant writer and probably the best lyricist of his generation, and I also like how he has this whole cool guy persona that completely falls apart whenever he opens his mouth because he’s a complete fucking dork.